Are you

fed up?

Sometimes we can feel stuck.

A situation might keep repeating itself.

Maybe you try what is advised in books and so.

But nothing seems to click or ‘work’.

Maybe you do not find the help that “clicks” and you feel alone.

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A helping hand

without judgement
& with a ‘different’ approach
can give relief.

Someone that supports you,
looks together with you at your situation
and offers you insights & tools.
This can give you renewed energy.


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Welcome!

My name is Chris
I’m a Psychologist (MSc),
counsellor Transactional Analysis &
Certified Aware Parenting Instructor

I work with tools of:
* Aware Parenting
* Attachment Parenting
* Unconditional Parenting
* Gordon Method
* Play
* Transactionele Analysis
* Bodywork
* Non Violent Communication
* Psychology
* And more

And I love giving you support!

I work without:

sleeptraining
TIME-OUTS
rewardsystems
punishments
CONSEQUEnceS
shame & guilt
RIGID parenting systems
labels

INSTEAD:

you can be human
we look at the causes of the behaviour
I help you strengthen the connection
understand behaviour
I offer communication tools
& play-TIPS
I help improve patience
Deal with your own blocks
And find balance

 
 

Themes

  • You (patience, for example)
  • Sleep
  • Eating/ Breastfeeding
  • Sibling rivalry
  • whining, tears, tantrums, anger
  • setting limits & cooperation
  • hitting & biting
  • hyper activity

  • fears (your child or you)
  • (birth)TRAUMA
  • potty training/ bedwetting
  • seperation & goodbyes
  • school-challenges
  • You and your partner
  • postpartum depression
  • And many other challenges 

What do we do in a session?

  • A consult can make causes of your child’s or your own behaviour clear
  • Sometimes practical tools are handy
  • Sometimes insights and mindshifts
  • Parenting can release deep feelings of shame & guilt. During a session they are welcome too and we can explore these feelings.
  • Questions? Mail me.

HOW MANY SESSIONS?

My experience is that we can make quite some shifts during 1 session (often when you have quite a “base” and have a “smaller” question). A package of 3 or 5 sessions can be nice to go more into depth and go through a process, so we can tweak and you get the chance to change the situation step by step in daily life. Ongoing support is also possible, for bigger challenges, for processes in you or just if you feel you’d love more support in your parenting journey. It’s possible to plan 1 session and extend it to a package. You don’t have to decide upfront. Whatever you choose, I’m happy to walk a short or longer walk with you in this journey!

Where?

In my praktice, online through Skype/ Facetime or at home.
Address of my Practice:
Therapeutisch Activiteiten Centrum, Borgerstraat 102, Amsterdam (West).
This is near Kinkerstraat.


adisti2
Dear Chris, I experienced our session as very nice. First I want to tell you that your peace and expertise really give me a feeling of trust. I really get the feeling that you know what you are talking about it and with all the calm you have in you, you feel intuitively what is needed. You gave me the feeling that I matter and that I cannot do it ‘wrong’. Thank you for your beautiful work, dear.
Much love, Adisti”
Adisti, mother of 2 children

marieke2-web
The session opened up a lot. My son became opener and me too. I dare to accept things I don’t like about myself and allow them to be there, or choose another road. It’s ok with frustration and sadness but I’m getting closer to the core and I think that’s good. Thank you for your help on my way, your listening ear and tips. Love, Marieke.
Marieke, mother of 3 children

 
 

The possibities


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single
consult

daily
struggles


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a
package

making steps
& adjusting


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in depth
analysis

extra analyses:
sleep/ food

 


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Home
visit

babies
1.5 hr


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Relationship
(ex) partners

1.5 hr


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Ongoing
support

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CONTENT

BASE:
CONSULT

Praktice, home
Or Video Call

INCL. extensive
intake questionnaire
60 min
Or 90 min

1 CONSULT
OR PACKAGE

EXTRA:
VIDEO PLAN

In-depth Analysis
situation

Create a video
of situation.
Receive feedback
+ a rapport

EXTRA AT
CONSULT/ PACKAGE

EXTRA:
SLEEP PLAN

In-depth Analysis
Sleep

Special worksheet
Receive feedback
+ a rapport

EXTRA AT
CONSULT/ PACKAGE

EXTRA:
EAT PLAN

In-depth Analysis
Eating

Special worksheet
Receive feedback
+ a rapport

EXTRA AT
CONSULT/ PACKAGE

A package is..

STEP 1

INTAKE

Analysis of
Your challenge

Extensive
questionnaire (poss. video/ extra) gives insight.

STEP 2

CONSULT 1

60 min
First steps

Insights & Practical tools.

STEP 3

CONSULT 2

60 min
Sharpening

What went well?
What can change?

STEP 4

CONSULT 3

60 min
Tweaking

How is it now?
How to go on?

 

Book a single consult

or

A package!

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For a small budget:
Payment in terms is possible. Ask about the options.

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CONSULTEN


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A

SINGLE
CONSULT
1x

€90

Basic
€80 follow up 


Extensive
Intake Analysis

+

60 min
Online / in Practice
(Homevisit 1.5 hr,
€135
)

+

Combination
with “extra”
is possible

BOOK 

B

Advantage
Package
3x

€225

Save €25
€75 per session


Extensive
Intake Analysis

+

3 x 1 hr
Online/ Praktice

+

In between
Support per Mail/ App

+

Combination
with “extra”
possible

BOOK

C

Advantage
Package
5X

€350

Save €60
€70 per (follow up)session


Extensive
Intake Analysis

+

5 x 1 hr
Online/ Praktice

+

In between
Support per Mail/ App

+

Combination
with “extra”
possible

BOOK

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D

EXTRA
in depth
ANALYSIS

 €35

indepth analysis
Behavior/ Sleep/ Eat


i.c.w.
consult

an in depth

Analysis of
Sleep or Eat process
or
Video Analysis
of situation

+

mini rapport

BOOK

“You showed me very clearly how my daughter communicates. Now I have a deeper understanding of her and I am able to help her in those moments when she really needs me!
Thanks again for our Skype conversation a few weeks ago. Since then I have been extremely patient and ever since feeling happy. The kids are of course feeling this too. Only a few days ago, I again had the feeling that I have to recharge again. That is fantastic! You rock !! xxx “
A. Bouwers, 2 kids

CONTACT

 

CLICK HERE FOR A FREE INTRO CONSULT

or ask info/ make an appointment here:

QUESTIONS

 

I have a small budget. What is possible?

You can pay later. And it is also possible to pay in terms/ per month.
Ask me about it.

IS IT COVERED BY INSURANCE?

In Holland not.

CAN I GET ONGOING SESSIONS?

Yes, you can book ongoing sessions if you want more than 5 sessions.
It can be handy to do “deeper work”
or if you have bigger challenges with your child
and want support on a regular basis.

We always decide together and do this in agreement.
I always try to help you with the minimum amount of sessions.

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